On January 11, 1960 I entered the world in Albuquerque, New Mexico. 50 years later, I look back grateful for so much in my life. I certainly wish that I could replay some of the events in my life. Hopefully the gray hairs on my head and on my beard indicate that I have gained some wisdom since my youth. I am wise enough to realize that I am a blessed man. Here is a list of 50 blessings to match the 50 years. Many more exist than 50, but this is a good reminder for things I am thankful.
- At the top of the list is that I have an amazing God. As a youngster, the Spirit of God gave life to me through Jesus. This has made all of the difference in the world.
- I had the privilege of being a shepherd to God’s people and preaching the Bible for about 20 years. I still miss this, but am grateful that I had that much time to do this.
- God took a sinful, broken vessel of a man who had sinned grossly against him, his wife, his family, his church and loved him still. I will forever be amazed at this display of grace.
- Suzie – she has been such a strength to me. I love her dearly and know that she loves me.
- Cameron – my firstborn. He can be intense and impatient, but has made his father proud so many times.
- Leah – my second born. Leah has never met a stranger. Her love for life has always brought a smile to my face.
- Carlton – my third born. He has been the overachiever of the bunch…at football, work and marriage.
- Bethany – my youngest. Bethany didn’t get the best from her father, but still manages to brighten his day with her love.
- Heath – my oldest grandchild. As a 7 year old, we enjoy chatting, wrestling and being together.
- Caleb – my second grandchild. This 3 year old is a character. So much fun listening to him.
- Children-in-law. Michael (married to Leah) and Amanda (married to Carlton) are tremendous partners to my kids and a delight to this father-in-law.
- My parents. Eugene and Lillie have always been my biggest fans. A son couldn’t have parents with greater love than have I.
- The opportunity to play competitive football, baseball and basketball. I really enjoyed playing quarterback for the Sapulpa Chieftains in Oklahoma.
- The opportunity to coach my boys in 3 sports. I know it wasn’t easy having your dad as a coach, but they both handled it very well.
- The wonderful people in the churches that I pastored. They took great care of me and my family.
- The teachers and professors who taught me to think and prepared me well.
- My friends – I’ve lived life as a nomad being a military kid and throughout. Some wonderful people have kept in touch through the years and the moves.
- I’ve had the privilege to travel throughout the world. Outside of the US, I have been to Okinawa, Italy, Germany, Israel, Russia, Switzerland and Guatemala with short stops in several other places.
- Taking Suzie to Disney World…several times. I love seeing her childlike joy there.
- Living at City Place in West Palm Beach.
- Relaxing in the sun at the beach.
- 2 weeks in Hawaii with Suzie.
- Seeing some great college football games live including a national championship game.
- Working in some great hotels and for some great hoteliers.
- Spending several years at the amazing Brown Hotel in Louisville.
- Being a fan of the Oklahoma Sooners and the Dallas Cowboys.
- 2 great pastors in Daniel Montgomery and Jimmy Scroggins.
- Spending a day and a night with Suzie with nothing to do.
- Teaching pastors in Russia.
- Skipping class at OBU to play ping-pong with Todd Littleton.
- Riding back and forth to Mid-America Baptist Theological Seminary with Dale Perry.
- Playing golf with Cameron and Carlton.
- Having the grandchildren spend the night with Suzie and me.
- Watching Mom and Dad celebrate 50 years of marriage with family and friends.
- Listening to Cameron playing saxophone, Leah singing, Carlton playing trumpet and Bethany playing violin. Sadly no instruments are currently being played.
- Finding junk with Suzie at thrift shops, garage sales and auctions.
- Riding the scooter along the beach with Suzie on the back.
- Meeting interesting people (some famous) throughout my hotel career.
- Learning that some of my blog writings have had a positive influence on others.
- Co-workers – I have had many great ones with whom I have spent long days together.
- Playing flag football with my kids.
- Getaway weekends with Suzie on some amazing outings.
- Watching Cameron play basketball in the AAU national championships in Utah.
- Watching Carlton play in a state championship football game.
- Watching my 2 daughters come into this world. The hospitals wouldn’t allow me in when the boys were born.
- Getting married to Suzie in the hills of Gatlinburg, Tennessee.
- Spending 3 weeks studying in Israel in 1981.
- Enjoying some wonderful dining experiences around the world.
- Discovering the world underneath the ocean by snorkeling.
- Spending a day with Suzie, all of the kids, the kids-in-law and grandkids and watching all of the joyful interactions.




